hile the rest of the group stayed in Philippi; Paul, Sarah Brown, Jen, Sarah Bennett and myself (Amy) headed over to Samora with Thobela as our guide. After a quick stop at the market for sandwich supplies, we headed straight to the Community Building used for the CHE trainers. When we arrived there were only 4 women at the meeting. By the time we finished, there were 14! Praise God for the women who are making an effort to initiate change in the community.
We had two talks planned for the meeting: one on encouraging each other and the other on business/finance. The talks were prepared in the CHE style which is highly interactive and engaging. Sarah Brown started us off by talking about encouraging and lifting each other up. We started with a skit and then asked questions about the skit. She also lead an exercise on “positive/encouraging words and actions” versus “negative words and actions”. Throughout the presentation the women were quite involved and not afraid to ask questions.
Sarah ended her time asking all the women to write their names on index cards. Then they passed the cards on to three other women in the room who wrote an encouraging word or characteristic about the person named on the card. The women LOVED this exercise! They got to keep the cards so that when they were feeling discouraged, they could pull out their card and read the uplifting words written about each of them.
By the time we had finished the first presentation, much of out meeting time was gone. This may have been a blessing, because Paul was scheduled to speak next. Paul has been quite ill so speaking for a whole hour would have wiped him out completely. But, God sustained him, and he still manged to muster the energy to come with us to the townships and proceed with his presentation on business and finance. He also had to make a few last minute changes to his presentation, based on a conversation he had with Mama Lulu just an hour before. Kudos to Paul for being T&F (tentative and flexible)! Despite his illness and making last minute adjustments Paul was able to give the CHE women a succinct run-down on three “best” business practices, backing up his material with scriptural references. He moved on to discuss quality characteristics needed for running a successful enterprise and ended with a segment on conflict resolution (this was the last minute addition suggested by Mama Lu). We ended our training with a quick sandwich and snack for the women, followed by a chorus of heartfelt thanks from these amazing women!
After the CHE meeting, we hopped in the car and headed out for two home visits. The first home we visited was occupied by a “Mama” and her extended family. What struck me about this home was that it had electricity and running water and was by relative standards quite nice. This was a contrast to Sweet Home, a neighboring township we had visited 2 days prior. Sweet home having no paved roads, limited electricity and no plumbing. The “Mama” at the home we visited asked us for prayer concerning her health and specifically her trouble with asthma. She also asked for prayers for the her grandsons. Their mother had died and one boy who had always struggled in school had really taken a turn for the worse after the loss of his mother. The 11 year old boy even had trouble remembering where he had put items. She was very concerned for him. We prayed over the family and left a parcel of food; staples such as rice, milk, sugar and cooking oil.
Our next home visit was down the street at the home of a 77 year old “Mama”. She was disabled and could not get around on her own at all. Even though her home was neat and clean, the overwhelming stench of urine was almost too much to bear. Having a sensitive nose, I realized how hard living in the townships would be. As “comfortable” Americans we take the simple things like plumbing and basic hygiene for granted. It really made me think about the conditions in which many of our brothers and sisters around the world live. We prayed for “Mama” and headed back to Philippi to meet up with the rest of the team.
I know it’s been said before but this beautiful country is one of contrasts. As Bill Duncan, the interim Retreat Director said, “It’s a county of haves and have nots”. After we headed back the “the farm” for a short rest, we treated ourselves to a nice dinner in Stellenbosch. Stellenbosch is a beautiful town and tourist destination. Again, the difference in quality of life was evident. Progress is being made, but the people of this country have their work cut out for them as far as caring for their own and working to alleviate the rampant poverty among many of the blacks in the country.
Next on the agenda is another three and a half days of “Camp-O-Rama” Please continue to pray for sustained energy and focus for the team over the next, and last, few days of our trip. We covet your prayers and look forward to seeing you all again next week!
Amy
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Jen and Sarah Teaching the CHE leaders